J-Lay

"Should've Been A Cowboy"

Monday, December 05, 2005

Question Of The Day

are you a "Doer" or a "Feeler"?

do you do what is necessary to succeed?

or...

do you settle for what you feel like doing at the moment?

i was asked that question on saturday and it really made me think. i came to the conclusion that too often i do what i feel like doing at the moment. i do what is easy to do at the moment. we all have dreams. whether they are big or small. we have them. something else that hit home on saturday was that if you want to achieve your dreams you have to turn them into goals. you have to write them down as well as your plan for achieving them. if it is a big goal that will take time. then we need to break it up into stages, or mini goals is you will, so that we can see our progress and not loose focus on our goal, and after we have spent our time being a "Doer". we can look back and say, wow! look what i did. i achieved my dream.

4 Comments:

At 12/05/2005 11:44 PM, Blogger YayCoffee said...

I am somewhere in the middle, I think. I'm a foer.

 
At 12/06/2005 2:56 PM, Blogger Babs said...

i'm both. lately i have really had to remember that i am not just a doer - i have to sit down every once in a while when i feel like it, hehehehe

 
At 12/08/2005 11:05 AM, Anonymous faith said...

Just make sure you aren't such a 'Doer' that you forget to be a people person...People are far more important than task.

 
At 12/08/2005 12:13 PM, Blogger j-lay said...

you'll be happy to know that people are the focus of my doing.

 

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